Do You Have These Middle Class’ Creeping Thoughts?

The sickness of being calculative to be perceived a certain way For many of us who have settled down and built a semi-permanent home called family, money is both an object of trouble and breakthrough. Trouble, because without these paper trails, we can’t fulfill basic needs like eating. We can’t supply the life we should be … More Do You Have These Middle Class’ Creeping Thoughts?

Why is Everything Pulling Women to Looking Good Instead of Feeling Good?

In every damn direction The other day, when I was cooking and dripping with sweats, my husband just made a random, supposedly-joking comment about me. “Why do you smell? Every morning you smell, and I don’t,” I know he meant it in a joking way, but it bothered me nonetheless. Call me overly sensitive, but … More Why is Everything Pulling Women to Looking Good Instead of Feeling Good?

How Many of These Old Wives Tale Are Still Relevant Today?

Includes a visit to old motherhood myths as well. Tell us your thoughts! Without further a due. 1.That women should be the one holding it together And that, my friend, includes cleaning, cooking, making sure the kids are alive and well-fed (and by kids, spouses are in that category too), managing the economy, never let … More How Many of These Old Wives Tale Are Still Relevant Today?

I Quit Trying to Make My Spouse Involved in House Work

Thanks to “I do things because I want to, not because I should” There’s nothing more empowering than the moment you realize everything is entirely up to you. As a wife, often times it’s so easy to fall into the trap of people’s expectation, including your own spouse. Mine, for example, has always been a traditionally-brought … More I Quit Trying to Make My Spouse Involved in House Work

Secret Club

This is a fleeting thought I had when you were inside me To be honest, I had a lot, but this one sticks the most I was on the edge; it felt like I was on the edge, you were about to come out and as the old wise saying goes, I’m about to be … More Secret Club

You’re About to Pop a Life Out of You, Yet You Can’t Avoid Feeling Empty

There’s a certain loneliness to pregnancy As a woman, there’s an irony to the fact that you’ve never been fuller than when you are pregnant for 9 months only to be left like an empty shell when it’s time to push. You will have to quickly fall in love with a newborn soul that you’ve … More You’re About to Pop a Life Out of You, Yet You Can’t Avoid Feeling Empty

I Ran Into My Husband’s Ex and She’s Doing Better than Ever

With a gorgeous ass and the flexibility of singlehood Here I am in my beginning of 3rd trimester of pregnancy, wearing double extra large, stretchy pants and carrying my cool MacBook Air for a tea-date with a close friend, something I enthusiastically waited a whole week to happen. So much so even I planned on … More I Ran Into My Husband’s Ex and She’s Doing Better than Ever